PODCAST OF THE MONTH

Having a partner to “do life” with definitely makes existing on earth so much easier and it sucks when you feel you are missing that support.

On the other side of that, you could have a partner but they are unsupportive and you’ve made no steps to remove yourself from a situation that no longer serves you. There could be many reasons why you don’t leave the situation BUT the bottom line is that you are not being fulfilled or supported and what matters most is how you feel and what you want to attract.

“I am undeniably a romantic at heart. I believe in deep passionate love like a 90's Rom-Com.”

Let’s be honest. Dating is hard. Breaking up sucks ass and marriage takes work. I had a friend tell me that for me to find that special person I had to keep dating because it changes the energy of what you want to attract and it lets the universe know that you’re open to having your life partner.

While I do believe there is truth to that statement I remained “selective” because dating definitely lets the universe know that you are open to relationships and having a life partner, BUT if you are not healed and have done no self work you will continue to attract what you don’t want and that can keep you on this hamster wheel spinning in circles yet going nowhere.

I am undeniably a romantic at heart. I believe in deep passionate love like a 90’s rom-com. I don’t live in a fantasy world because I know that no one is perfect but I believe that there is a love that is deep and passionate. One where you know that is YOUR PERSON. A love with much honor, respect and support. A love that helps you grow together and separately. A love that makes you feel safe and secure because that is what I mirror in my relationships with everyone so, why would I expect less with a partner? And that has been my issue almost my entire life. I was in relationships that never served me and I had never felt safe or secure.

Some people jump into relationships because they simply do not want to be alone and that never bothered me. I loved my alone time because I got to work on me and in times that I felt alone and wanted support my feelings never waivered on the type of love I knew… KNOW exists.

Don’t be afraid to be alone because you have to learn to love in order to attract that love. Don’t let the pressure of being in a relationship put you in one that causes you more pain. Hold out for what you believe in. It exists. It’s true and it is not only seen in movies.

You deserve to be loved fully.