LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX BABY!
You're dating again and you don't want to screw it up... so how long should you wait before having sex with your new partner?
GET TO KNOW ME CHALLENGE
Aha! You clicked on this article hoping that the writers at Sly Stone had some hot steaming tea! Well, our tea cups are running over and we do have some homework for you. We want you to join the “Get To Know Me” Challenge! No, this is not like the movie “Think Like A Man” this entire article is more about thinking about yourself.
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
If you have not read our article about One Night Stands you definitely should because we briefly touched on “mirroring what you want”.
If you are set on living your best life then this may not be the challenge for you. But if you truly want to have your partner and your desire is to have that deep connection and live domestically happy then PLEASE continue reading.
Channeling what you want is so important and when you get the chance for that to happen the test begins. If you want that deep intimacy and your life partner try NOT having sex with them. This lets them truly get to know you deeply and intimately.
Sex should not be a connection with a person. Sex is only the icing on the cake but that partner should get to know what you like to do, your goals and aspirations. You should be able to have a great time with your new partner without sex being incorporated in it.
If they leave you because they NEED to be physical with you then why would you want to be with someone who bailed on you because they can’t have sex? That’s insane.
If they leave you because they got to know you and learned that you aren’t compatible on a mental, spiritual or emotional level THAT IS OK!
HOW LONG SHOULD YOU WAIT?
Well, this is up to you. How long do you will you allow yourself to be honored and truly get to know someone? If you want a good healthy time frame, a month should be the minimum. They will have a respect for you because you honor yourself. It is something that you don’t have to TEACH someone because your actions will speak volumes.
Let your partner get to know you intimately without sex being a key factor. You will NOT REGRET when you do finally have sex with them. It will be more intense, more passionate and will be worth your wild! When someone knows you intimately first, it unlocks a whole other level of passion for you both. It is an indescribable experience.
Kissing and “touching” are ok.
Oral sex is a form of sex so that is a NO! NO SEX. No dry humping sex. No 4 play using “hands” and “fingers”. Got it?
You got this! Let 1 month be the minimum. You will find out so much about this person of interest when you take the sex out the equation. After one month just let it happen naturally and it will.
Let us know how this works for you. Share your experiences and encouragement in the comments below!
